I gelt this deeply. There are things I’ve literally been telling my mum since high school that i find hurtful and offensive and she still does to this very day and i’m in my 30s now. Like I love you mum but this is zero effort.
Thiss!! Its exactly the same with my dad and what upsets me the most its not their behavior is them acting like they didn’t do anything like just own up to it and stop making me feel crazy and gaslighting me.
And they turn it into an argument and somehow they’re the offended party. Literally conversations about my mental health with my family always turns into how it affects them more or how they’re more stressed or more hurt and at this point i’ve stopped sharing anything with them lol
omg the argument and being offended!! so true. Same I don’t share nothing with my dad and the he comes like “but we don’t hang out anymore like we used to” welp … if that aint the consequences of your own actions🤷🏻♀️
Girl!!!!! I swear sonetimes i feel like i might go insane when i look around and see people acting a certain way. Its like HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE YOUR TERRIBLE BEHAVIOUR. It’s genuinely exhausting sometimes i feel like I’m the only person that understands social cues.
“The nerve of people” I always feel and think. Like how can they not simply “feel” what’s around them? Am I the only one that cares? So exhausting! I feel you and you’re not alone! 🤍
Keep feeling, it’s what makes us be real and stand out!!!
I was just telling my sister the other day that I don’t go around people often bc of how much they lack self awareness. It gets exhausting watching them be the same person over and over! Very predictable and boring! I related to this so much!
I gelt this deeply. There are things I’ve literally been telling my mum since high school that i find hurtful and offensive and she still does to this very day and i’m in my 30s now. Like I love you mum but this is zero effort.
Thiss!! Its exactly the same with my dad and what upsets me the most its not their behavior is them acting like they didn’t do anything like just own up to it and stop making me feel crazy and gaslighting me.
And they turn it into an argument and somehow they’re the offended party. Literally conversations about my mental health with my family always turns into how it affects them more or how they’re more stressed or more hurt and at this point i’ve stopped sharing anything with them lol
omg the argument and being offended!! so true. Same I don’t share nothing with my dad and the he comes like “but we don’t hang out anymore like we used to” welp … if that aint the consequences of your own actions🤷🏻♀️
I see they all have the same playbook 🤣
For real😭😭😭😭
I use to think I care too much and feel too much, but that's my human nature. I don't blame myself for being too soft anymore... I'm a HUMAN BEING.
HUMANS are supposed to feel.
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Team softie and caring for the win!! Instead of cold and mean. Thank you Bright, appreciate it🫶🏼
Girl!!!!! I swear sonetimes i feel like i might go insane when i look around and see people acting a certain way. Its like HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE YOUR TERRIBLE BEHAVIOUR. It’s genuinely exhausting sometimes i feel like I’m the only person that understands social cues.
THISS!! like are you five years old or something? I swear people just lice un their own head without a care in the world
“The nerve of people” I always feel and think. Like how can they not simply “feel” what’s around them? Am I the only one that cares? So exhausting! I feel you and you’re not alone! 🤍
Keep feeling, it’s what makes us be real and stand out!!!
Right? how can someone be so oblivious? Gurl trust I will keep having these feelings because I know what’s like to be numb and that was horrendous!!
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I was just telling my sister the other day that I don’t go around people often bc of how much they lack self awareness. It gets exhausting watching them be the same person over and over! Very predictable and boring! I related to this so much!
Gurl the delusion, it’s annoying and exhausting, especially when I can’t detach from them
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